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1. Gia dinh cd vol trd rd'l quon trqng trong

vifc hinh thdnh vd phdt triln nhdn cdch cua Iri ,

bdi: cha m f Id nhung ngudi tll p xOc vdi tri

thudng xuygn, Idu ddi. Id cdu ndi chuyen gioo

n i n vdn hda xa hdi tdi trg thdng quo giao tiip

(GT). Vigc GT v6i cha me khdng chi d l thdo man

nhu cdu linh edm md cdn Id mdt phuong ihuc

giup tr i tiep nh^n nin vdn hda nhdn loqi. Trong

qud trinh GT, trg duqc sol minh v6o cha me, quo

dd tfch luy kinh nghi|m, chud'n myc xd h0i, blln

thdnh vdn sdng, vdn hilu bilt ci3a minh. Vi thi,

trg cdng chu a$ng, tfch eye GT boo nhlgu, sy

phdt triln ldm If, nhdn cdch dlen ra nhanh chdng

bdy nhigu.

Lija tudi thilu nien (TN) Id glal doqn chuyin

tllp , qud dq tu tudi tho Ign tudi trudng thdnh, bdi

vdy, cd sy chuyin blln rdt Idn v l th i chd't cung

nhu tdm tf, xd hdi--. Ngt tdm If ndi bqt nhdt cOo

li>a tudi TN dd Id sy thay ddi trong GT vdi ngudi

Idn vd cdc bqn cung ludl. Cdc em cd th i de ddng

trd chuygn vdi bqn bg nhung Iql gdp nhllu Ird

ngqi trong GT vdl cho m?, dO cho cho m? v3n Id

nhihig ngudi hdng ngdy chdm sdc, nudi ndng,

gido dye ede em. Vile GT glua con cdl vd cho

m^ ngdy cdng bj hqn eh l (v l thdi gion cung nhu

ndi dung GT) khl ^ sy hllu bllt cOo cho me v l

eon edi ngdy cdng thgm khodng cdch. Ddy cung

chfnh Id nguygn nhdn cOa Hnh trqng tri vi phqm

phdp ludtvd nhiJng hdnh vi lech chudn ngdy edng

gio tdng.

De iJido sdt ihyc trqng vd muc dd chu dqng GT

cOa trg ddl vol cha me, ndm hqc 2010-2011, chung

tdl dd tien hdnh dllu Ira 503 hqc sinh (HS) Idp 7,

8, 9 cua 5 trudng THCS: Trdn Ddng Nlnh; Nam

Hdng; Nam Phong (TP. Nam Djnh); Ngo Son

(Thanh Hdo), Ldmdndxdp (Hd Ndl)- Phuong phdp

nghign cuu chu yl u Id diiu tro bdng bdng hdi,

f^dn g vdn sdu vd phdn h'ch chdn dung mdl sdco

dll n hinh. Tinh chO dgng giao tiip (TCEX5T) Id mdl

trong bdn tieu chf d l fim hilu v l tfnh tich eye GT

cOo TN vdl cha me. Ddy cung Id 4 ndi dung duqc

Tap chi Blao due s6 29 0 (ki a • r/aoia)

thilt k l trong mSu philu tim hilu v l Knh tfch eye

GT. Cdn eu vdo thang dilm quy u6e, ehung Idi

chlo thdnh 3 mi>e: coo, tnjng binh vd thdp.

2. Ki t qud nghign cuu

1) TCD trong GT cOa TN vdl cha m^ (kit

qud trinh bdy d bdngl].

Bdng 1. TCDGT vdl cha, mf cOa TN

TCE)GT

Thdp

Trung blnti

Ceo

Tdng chung

OTB

TCDGT vdi m9

SL

204

141

15S

503

% 40,6

28,0

31,4

100.0

1,91

TCOGTwMcha

SL

224

147

121

492

% 45,5

29,9

24,6

100,0

1,79

Bdng 1 cho thd'y, nhln chung TCDGT vdt cha,

mf cua TN chi d muc do trung binh ix= 1,91

vdl mf,x=^ ,79 vdl cho) nhung ed sv khdc bl|t

v l muc dp TCDGT cdo con vdi cho vd me, hong

dd, trd ed phdn chu dpng GT vdi m^ hon so vdi

eha|^ = 1,91 > 1,79).

Tim hllu SI/ phdn bd H \i timg muc dp cOo

TCDGT, ehung tdi nhdn thdy, do sdTN h; ddnh

gid (TDG) thudc hot nhdm muc dd «trung binh'

vd «cao" (hon 55,0% vdl ed m? vd cho). TI Id TN

ed TCDGT d «muc thd'p" Id 40,d% ddi vdi m? vd

45,5% ddi vdl cho. TN ed TCDGT vdl mf d «miic

coo' chllm tl 1^ Idn hon so vdi cho (31,4% so vdl

24,d%). Ngupc Ipl, TN cd TCDGT d «muc thdp"

vdi cho Igl chllm tl 1$ Idn hon so vdi m f (40,d%

so vdi 45,5%). TI l | TCDGT d «mi>c hung binh"

cdo TN vdi cha vd m? hiong ddi cdn bdng (28,0%

vd 29,9%).

D l ddnh gid mdt cdch ddy dd hon v l

TCDGT cda TN vdi cha vd m?, chdng tdi phdn

tich SI/ khde bi| t giuo ede muc dd cuo TCD

glQo ede nhdm HS theo cdc til u chi: gidi , hge

li/c, khd'i Idp, trudng, thu ti/ con trong gio

dinh. Ki t qud:

' TnUf tv iwc sir plm Hi N«i

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