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Reach out and touch someone. Actually, touch everyone. Any time you meet someone new,

touch them in a friendly way as soon as you can. This can take the form of a friendly arm pat

or a handshake; anything, really, as long as it’s not too invasive.

Tease everyone. One quality that can make people enjoy your company is the ability to tease

in a playful, fun, way. This teasing should be in a flirtatious context and not mean-spirited.

The underlying meaning of the conversation should be: “I like you”.

Changes to your game – things you need to keep in mind for Day Game

Lower the energy level. In a bar or club, there are a lot of distractions. To make sure you get

everyone’s attention in a group, you need to be very entertaining and usually high-energy. The

same energy level in a supermarket will just make you come off as a clown. You still need to

approach a woman with an energy level equal or slightly greater than hers, but you don’t want

to act obviously out of place or to attract everyone else’s attention to your approach.

You should focus more on women by themselves. Approaching groups during the day is more

challenging. First, the energy level required to capture the attention of a large group may

come off as inappropriate for the environment (see point #1 above). Second, it will be difficult

to start a private conversation (see Chapter 9) with the woman you want. My advice in Day

Game: get a woman alone with you by approaching women who are alone to begin with.

Be careful with touching. You should only touch the woman in a way you would be comfort￾able touching your boss. This means no groping, or pawing, and making sure that you respect

her physical boundaries. This isn’t a nightclub. She is in a public place meeting a stranger;

focus on making her comfortable, not aroused.

Try to move quickly to the Qualification phase (see Chapter 8). First, she might have to leave

any second, even more so than in bars and clubs. Moreover, women in the daytime seem to

be easier to attract than at night. [Just to balance things out, they are harder to build comfort

with.] Try skipping straight to Qualification after Opening and Transitioning. If she won’t

qualify herself, then go back to Attraction.

Use instant dates. People during the day don’t usually just “hang out” like they do at bars

and clubs. If you meet a woman during the day, you need to go with her where she is going,

or suggest something else. This is why I like meeting women in locations that have built-in

instant date possibilities, like a bookstore with a coffee shop inside.

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